do traditional professional girls still exist?

[pak2015]

Re: do traditional professional girls still exist?

@Thornewood9

Its not a jibe at you. Its a genuine question. Probably came across as harsh. I apologise for that but it doesn’t look like you’ve thought this through. And your idea of “extreme” religious people is what you listed in your post: wears hijab, reads Quran, incorporates Islam into her life. That’s extreme to you? What?
Also increased spirituality WILL change your marriage dynamic and relationship. You can’t box these things. If she becomes more religious you think she won’t want to share that with you? What if she starts encouraging you more to the deen? Then what? Or what if she wants to raise her children with more emphasis on Islam? You think that won’t cause problems? What if you have girls? Does your requirement of no hijab extend to your daughters?
I’m seriously asking I’m not bashing for sake of bashing.

Good grief I wear hijab, I read Quran on a daily basis, in fact I have a Quran app on my phone so I can listen or read Quran wherever I am, and that’s “extreme” religious behaviour to you!

And pointing out that some girls wear hijab but are far from religious is just nitpicking. Yes they’re not perfect but at least they are obeying their creator in one aspect of life.

In my first post I said I don’t want to marry a girl who wears hijab and spends entire day reading Quran while being very strict and now allowing other things in life. There needs to be a balance especially in Western society and if the girl is professional. I don’t mind if she reads Quran, I was talking about an extreme form of reading the Quran and neglecting other things in the process. Please read my original post again.

I figured you wore hijab and i don’t mean any disrespect but sorry one piece of clothing does not make a good Muslim. It’s one aspect but just that, 1 aspect. Just like growing a beard doesn’t make someone a good Muslim either. We focus on too many minor things while neglecting the bigger picture of what it means to be a good Muslim.