do traditional professional girls still exist?

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Re: do traditional professional girls still exist?

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I’m curious why some Pakistani girls have become so liberal? The vices I mentioned above are considered immoral even in the most liberal societies so why did we adopt them. Is it upbringing? Friends? Evironment? Parents giving too much freedom? Parents being too strict? Daddy issues? Maternal pressure and being put down by mother? Our society and culture emphasizing superificial things like looks, skin color, fashion, partying and having fun, money, and materialistic stuff instead of education and values? Is it because its easy to do these things these days with phones/internet/texting/skyping? All of the above? Just curious as a future parent, I’d like to have a daughter. What works? What doesnt work?

Guys rebel but in different ways..why do girls when they undergo their rebellious stage..they often use sex and sexuality as their form of rebellion? Do they think its empowering, makes them feel wanted and validated or is getting attention from guys really that important to them lol? I do think most girls get over it after experiencing it and getting used by a guy (this is what I call the hijab stage for some girls after they’ve done some messed up stuff they start wearing hijab as a PR move or become religious after realizing their mistakes and sins)

Don’t get me wrong, I’ve done wrong also, we all have, and guys are much much much worse in general. I have a good understanding of that as a guy..just trying to gain an understanding from the girls side so please don’t make this into a sexist issue, I’m genuinely curious about what goes through a girls mind

it’s a multitude of things. and to be honest, it’s got a lot to do with social media too. girls lap up the attention, but guys go lattoo over these girls and it inflates them even more. like, grow a pair and stop being so ott about a good looking girl and then wonder why she’s got a complex kind of cringe

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not a parent or married (younger sibs though) make sure kids aren’t around on their phones for too long, their social media usage is fine because i tell them to post stuff that they would be comfortable posting in front of my mum and i (boo hiss twitter). and you just make sure that they are well balanced, the girls and even my teen brother can fend for himself (ie. make omelettes, cook some kinda chicken and his parathas are pretty decent). discuss worldly issues with them and ensure they are into sports or other activities etc and they understand the value of things they buy because it doesnt come easy. you make sure that they are actually driven to study and have a good understanding of what religion is or what kind of cultural background they have, and a lot of that comes from leading by example so all in all it’s down to what sort of person you are, and what kind of things you want your kids to value because they will emulate a lot of you as a parent. empathy also goes a long way.