do traditional professional girls still exist?

[Thornewood9]

Re: do traditional professional girls still exist?

@pak2015

Lol majority of Muslim girls do not wear hijab..and some that do, are far from decent religious girls..why are you criticizing me for it lol..clearly majority of pakistani wives aren’t hijabis

Anyways nothing wrong with hijabis, I was talking about the more extreme forms of religious people, they won’t jibe well with me so if anything I’m doing good for such a girl by not marrying her and then later trying to change her..I don’t want to change anyone

And of course people change, religion is a very personal issue..if she wants to be religious I’ll happily support her as long as it doesn’t impact the dynamic of our marriage and relationship

Its not a jibe at you. Its a genuine question. Probably came across as harsh. I apologise for that but it doesn’t look like you’ve thought this through. And your idea of “extreme” religious people is what you listed in your post: wears hijab, reads Quran, incorporates Islam into her life. That’s extreme to you? What?
Also increased spirituality WILL change your marriage dynamic and relationship. You can’t box these things. If she becomes more religious you think she won’t want to share that with you? What if she starts encouraging you more to the deen? Then what? Or what if she wants to raise her children with more emphasis on Islam? You think that won’t cause problems? What if you have girls? Does your requirement of no hijab extend to your daughters?
I’m seriously asking I’m not bashing for sake of bashing.

Good grief I wear hijab, I read Quran on a daily basis, in fact I have a Quran app on my phone so I can listen or read Quran wherever I am, and that’s “extreme” religious behaviour to you!

And pointing out that some girls wear hijab but are far from religious is just nitpicking. Yes they’re not perfect but at least they are obeying their creator in one aspect of life.