Do ppl really have to marry the person

[Gr8Heera]

@Jaanwar

Love can be the best and the worst thing that can happen to you. Marrying or not marrying depends on the circumstances.

Zabardast Well said.

@zobia

there are three types of lover i have discovered so far.

1. one who sees the rose and urged to touch it, seperate it from its stem and either puts it his/her book, or put it in some decoration piece or Trashes it.

2. the second one just sits there and adorns the beauty of the rose. he/she wont gonna touch it cuz he/she believes that their sins might gonna impure the pure [rose] soul.

3. and third one only keeps its [rose’s] image, its purity in his/her heart.

now u can all decide whether i ever loved someOne ever or not.

You know the love very well. Gr8 explanation.

@Niksik

Zobs, think for a minute that you are married to someone. But you love some qualities of other men. How would that be especially when you tell your husband “jaanu, I love the way Munawar walks or honey, I am totally crazy about the way Mehboob talks.”

When you love someone, you erase what you don’t like about them. And think about it, it’s better to marry someone who’s qualities you love. You can never really know everything about anyone unless you start living with them as their spouse.

Now regarding divorces, you’ll be surprised how many divorces and extra marital affairs we are having in our muslim community these days, most of which were “arranged” marriages. Sometimes I think that people who have “love” marriages actually work harder at their marriages because they go through tough times initially and are judged harder.

But again, I don’t want to generalize here.

So yours is LOVE MARRIAGE. Mera shuk sahi nikla.