OK, so my mother is friends with this women who herself is married to a cousin, whose parents were cousin and whose daughter is now engaged to *her cousin. *I mean, the daughter of the woman is engaged to the her mother’s cousin. Sorry if this sounds confusing; it’s pretty messed up.
Anyways, have you guys heard of marrying your parent’s cousins? Isn’t that a little weird, marrying someone who’s like you Khala or Mamu?
pinkyy
March 23, 2011, 8:51am
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OK, so my mother is friends with this women who herself is married to a cousin, whose parents were cousin and whose daughter is now engaged to *her cousin. *I mean, the daughter of the woman is engaged to the her mother’s cousin. Sorry if this sounds confusing; it’s pretty messed up.
Quite confusing
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Quite confusing
Let’s call the woman, A. A’s daughter is engaged to A’s cousin. lol
Also, A is herself married to a cousin. A’s parents were also cousins. A’s sisters are also married to their cousins.
Also, I forgot to mention, the guy A’s daughter is engaged to is the younger brother of the guy that A’s sister is married to!
NomiCA
March 23, 2011, 9:04am
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cousine doesn’t explain the sort of relationship islamically…you need to just tell the relation of the girl and the guy being married…
islamically anyone who is connected to you in bloodline (father’s siblings, mother’s siblings) are not shadi’able..
KKF
March 23, 2011, 9:06am
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islamically, its allowed.
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Ya, I know, but have you ever seen this type of thing?
NomiCA
March 23, 2011, 9:18am
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wats ur point of making this thread dude?? u find it odd that there is cousine marriage?? is that all?
KKF
March 23, 2011, 9:27am
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i have seen a guy marrying his cousin’s grand daughter
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Wasn’t Hazrat Ali (RA) the Prophet’s (SAW) cousin? He married the Prophet’s daughter Fatima (RA).
I can’t recall any similar case in real life though.
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it really depends.
i have my parents cousins-who are meant to be my khala/mamoon/phoppo/chachoo/taya etc etc but i have never considered them that since they are my age so they are like friends.
yup seen it happening in real life.
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Well if they’re close in age and otherwise compatible, then its not so shocking or surprising..
Muzna
March 23, 2011, 2:14pm
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Yes…come to think of it I do know of a couple like this.
Woman is married to her mother’s cousin brother.
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Ditto, my aunty had her son marry one her cousins, nothing strange about that to me, they are the same age and they love each other a lot.
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yes
TLK
March 23, 2011, 4:21pm
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OK, so my mother is friends with this women who herself is married to a cousin, whose parents were cousin and whose daughter is now engaged to *her cousin. *I mean, the daughter of the woman is engaged to the her mother’s cousin. Sorry if this sounds confusing; it’s pretty messed up.
Anyways, have you guys heard of marrying your parent’s cousins? Isn’t that a little weird, marrying someone who’s like you Khala or Mamu?
so let me ask you this question. If you are in love with a guy and after meeting your family, they realized that he is a distant cousin of your mom, will you say no to him?
NomiCA
March 23, 2011, 4:30pm
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icesoul in love with guys ?
TLK
March 23, 2011, 4:38pm
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Icesoul is a guy
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Have you ever seen a girl in white knight armour?
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Um, I was actually talking about arranged marriages. The family I’m talking about, they constantly marry their cousins. Since the girl who is engaged now didn’t have any cousins her age (all little kids), her mom got her engaged to her own cousin. And not distant, first cousin.
And yeah, I’m a guy.
NomiCA
March 23, 2011, 7:27pm
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