Do PATHAN men treat their ladies better than PUNJABI men???

Hey the more the better dont you think? Says abit for their abilities.

haha, is it possibly cause they might have the ability to be treated really well (Such as their gift of good looks) - nothing wrong with that :P

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^^ Oh yeah, nothing wrong with a bunch of tough rugged Pathan men doing their stuff with cute little boys with natural good looks.

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With no offense to anyone and with all due respect to the thread starter, answers to such questions would lead to a lot of generalization by a lot of members of this forum. As observed in the past some people love to generalize people of a particular category on the bases of their own personal limited observations and experiences. It is better not to ask such questions from those people, as their answer might hurt any other member who belongs to the particular group they are criticizing.

In short, let us avoid discussions that lead to racist comments. Muslims are not categorized on the basis of language but by their character, that too by the ultimate Lord. No human has a right to judge on the basis of race, language, nation or any other apparent factor which people don't have control over.

I am sure that the punjabi or pathan who is strictly supporting people of his own language, would have totally opposite views if he were born in the other group of people.

All kinds of people are there in all kinds of groups. Kindly DO NOT generalize on the basis of your limited knowledge / observation or experience. No offense intended but that statement doesn't make sense if used for people of a particular language

Sounds like you are speaking from experiance, have you spotted one? perhaps experianced it?

Honey, you don't need to be an Einstein to know whats common knowledge. Sorry if that breaks your fragile heart.

If you can't take the heat, then stay away from it, you know. Whatever that means -- I'm only quoting you!

I aint your honey and hey leave your funny fingers out of it when you were typing it. Its common knowledge when you are surrounded by it, my part of the world it aint common.

you stalking my posts now theer?

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Can we go back to the topic please? Sorry my bad bro STP.

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I grew up with a Pakhtoon family (they don’t like being called Pathan). Yai laug bohat parda kartein hain. It was a big family and Aunty G in scorching heat was covered from head to toe and In 8 years of living together I maybe saw her get out of the house once. If she needed anything her sons would get it for her, she wouldn’t go to the market with them etc. The lads were good friends of mine and their dad was huge and I was scared of him. :hehe:

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we know a pathan family very well. the women do complete parda - their father was a maulana and built the local mosque. just because they were living islamically it doesn't mean they were treated badly! the father treated his wife and daughter's extremely well. the same cannot be said for 2 of his daughters husbands though. in any group, you will get kind, caring people and also mean spirited people. i think that goes without saying. i don't see that there will be a conclusion to this thread.

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^^ Oh yeah. The women aren’t permitted to get out of the house, have to be dressed from head to toe at all times, and basically, don’t get to have a life. That doesn’t sound like bad treatment at all! :hehe:

Please, leave your ethnic biases aside and call a spade a spade. Such treatment sucks.

we also had a huge pathan uncle who lived in our apartment building in Pak, he would say salam to us but wouldn’t socialize much but on eids he would just block our way, i would get SO scared but then he would pull out karakk 10 Rupee notes from his pocket and give to us. :hehe:

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well i don’t know where you extrapolated all that from. these women do go out but they are completely covered and as far as i know out of choice. the daughter’s of these women only wear hijab and go to school/college like anyone else.
i have no ethic bias to these people as i’m punjabi (if anything, being born in the UK i feel little of this ethnicity either). you need to stop being so narrow minded and realise that your experience of the world is not also everyone else’s.

What are doing looking out for aunty G 24/7 LUC :stuck_out_tongue:

Get a life…

If all aunties come out of their houses in the mohala at some point and one doesn't, you are bound to get curious. :D

I’ll get one when you’re done looking at those pretty boys with “natural good looks” :hehe:

So she is a special aunty then Lol

BTW, was she the only one coverved from head to toe and thats how u were able to distinguish her?