You are a bigoted, racist, ignorant, generalising piece of ****.
So much pride is not good, may your children/siblings marry non-Pashtuns to crush your pride and racism.
It is people like you who divide Pakistan and the Muslim Ummah with your 'Assabbiyyah (racism) ****.
Nabi Muhammed (Sal Allaaho 'Alaihe Wassallam) married people outside his tribe and ethnicity and so did his companions.
It is people like you who are irritating and confused.
Boring, sad people like you with your dull black and white lifestyles, you’re too stuck up your own arses to appreciate the wonderful and diverse languages and people of Pakistan and the Islamic World.
People like you belong in the stone age, you are too bothered about things which don’t matter in the modern world anymore.
Nobody cares about blood/lineage, or whether to wear those horrible black Pashtun turbans or Punjabi sarongs…
…Today we live in a cosmopolitan world where caveman culture of one kind or another is no more, all the people around the world have the same culture now or will have very soon, the world has become a melting pot for culture, we all eat each others foods, wear the same clothes (pants shirt), have the same lifestyles… The only cultural distinction between people is religion and language…
Other than language all the Muslim people are culturally pretty much the same, my lifestyle is no different from the Kurdish or Bengali boys in my town except for language.
Balancing two languages is no problem when I’m with Pashtuns I speak Pashto and become Pashtun, and when I visit Punjab I am Punjabi, my lifestyle doesn’t change, only language does, I wear jeans all the time so I don’t have to worry about changing from shalwar to dhoti, and my values/beliefs/ideology always remain the same because they come from Islam not Pashtunwali or Punjabiyat.
In my opinion only language defines your ethnicity and we mixed ones can easily alternate between languages.
Other than language the cultural differences between different ethnic groups are fast diminishing, a universal culture is forming, Pakistani boys wear jeans, English women wear Trouser Tunics (westernised form of Shalwar Kamiz), Chinese people eat curry. In the end the only difference that remains is language and religion.
Racial purity is also a farce because every ethnicity including Pashtuns and Punjabis have assimilated lots of different races into their group. Pashtuns have Jewish, Aryan, Dravidian, Greek etc. blood all mixed into them. Punjabis are also a mix.