^ hmmm
I dont think men think their wives are burdens, but if they wife is not working, and is not doing much else at home (besides the household chores which dont take that much of ur time if u dont have a kid), then the husband may start wondering..
I think women realize their talents are being wasted at home before their husbands do. So they'll be the first ones to talk to their husbands about it.
I told my wife to get more education and not worry about the fees. I got that taken care of.