Do any of you have a negative/difficult relationship with your mother?

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And how has it effected you or changed you as a person?

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Nope. Next.

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Naah, never. For the change, she's undoubtedly made my lousy self way better than I could ever dream or promised to be.

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don’t have one. :naak:

Anyway, there’s a famous saying in Punjabi, “maan dhi di laraaee jeevain dudh tay malaee”.

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Hareem can you translate please?

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Yes, I did, although after marriage things improved significantly.

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what changed sara? how did it improve?

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Yes, I had a negative sort of relationship with my mother for some reasons and it has improved after I got married. I still don't look upto her as a role model but I now understand why she is the way she is and understand she had a difficult life so I appreciate whatever she did for our family.

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Thats how I feel now CorruptAngel -what changed after you got married? can you explain more?

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Allhumdullah never :)

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whenever i go overseas for a long period, i miss my mom so much and when i return i am always closer to her. i guess distance does make the heart grow fonder. u miss ur mum's presence. so when a girl gets married, she needs her mum to rant to/get advice/share every day doings etc. personally, i feel that u can tell ur mum and sisters every thing!

i guess i do have negative phases with my mum... but i always give in. afterall, she is my mum.

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nah.

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I don’t know :bummer:

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It's not a terrible relationship (as in we're on speaking terms) but I don't see my mum as a role-model or someone I could ever confide in about personal stuff and I can't imagine a point where that will change :( I do often wonder about her upbringing and how it shaped her as a person..

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same Deebs.

It can be very frustrating because I end up exhausting myself in trying to help her.

I am sad I dont see her as a role model. But atleast we have amazing Dads!

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Mom-daughter quarrels are like milk and cream.

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Can you (or someone else) explain what that means?

For my parents, marriage was a constant worry from when I hit HS.

When I got married, that worry was lifted. Simple as that.

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Is it just me or do most ABCDs/BBCDs here have mom/dad issues?

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^ I've seen plenty of kids back home argue with their parents....

Conflicts are human nature and don't discriminate

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no, it’s just you :chai: