Re: Do any of you Guppans....
I have an extremely loving relationship with my in-laws mashAllah...they treat me the same as my sister in law (hubs sis) whatever they buy for her, same for me...in turn i treat them like my own parents, even if my mum in law ever tells samjha's me about somethin i never take it personally...when i got hitched i didnt force myself on them, we developed a natural trustworthy bond which took time...my sister in law comes over, she never lets me do any work in my own house she takes over and makes me relax...when i go over i do her share of the work and make her relax. Even when I went to pak, my mum in law gave me all her new jewellry to wear coz some it matched my suits. Just like a mum would do. I am extremely lucky alhamdulillah. We can go out and have a laugh together, no issues...when my mum in law is over my husband gets totally ignored coz once we start talking we dont stop. lol she phones me everyday and she tells me stuff that she doesnt tell her son even, she confides in me. She knows im on her side..when i was ill and went to hospital she cooked for us everyday and dropped fresh khana off to us..just like a mum would! parents just want love, sometimes we just misunderstand the in laws ..we just need to treat them like our own!