I did not see any thread from men in these forums about how bad their wives or in laws are and how they are suffering . Is it not in men’s nature to complain ? Or they are more in control of situation and do not need any help from anybody to solve their domestic issues ? Or is it their love for their wives and wives parents and siblings that they just suffer and do not complain ?
I am confused. Why there is not a single men having issues with wives and in laws ?
Or is it that men are more compromising and patient then women when it comes to spouse and his/her parents and siblings ?
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i think it's their nature. they have problems as many proiblems as women might but deal with it rather differently.
Is it not in men's nature to complain ? Or they are more in control of situation and do not need any help from anybody to solve their domestic issues ?
agree with this part of your's but only partially b/c men do have complains and issues but they've their own way to express that .............most of then deal with them in a subtle way ,they don't create a hoopla( now that doesn't mean that women does) when there is any trouble ......... also most of them have their set priorities that how to deal with wife + family @ the same time in a way that their demands n desires r fulfilled so they all stay happy
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i think men r not that much sensitives as the women are.. & also in our Pakistani culture, the boy's family behaves as a Lord & girl's family keep trying their best to make their Damaad happy & fulfill their all demands. i think thats the reason men never find any problem with their inlaws!
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^ sadly i have to agree with that.. in most cases that's what happens... not always , exceptions exist, but generally thats wat happens, esp in cases of typical joint families.. not sure how the reverse-joint family thing works...
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ghar-damaads ain’t a common concept 
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women like to complain all the time thats why runs away into hiding
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I just think it all boils down to nature... and generally (and cannot stress that enough) men aren't the type to vent about their problems like women do... just b/c a man doesn't complain doesn't mean he has no problems.
men do not have to live and put up wiht their inlaws to hte extent that owman do...i*n our culture it is the woman who goes to live at the guyz house*.. and first of all that living arrangemnt itself creates problems for woman like being ruled by a dominating saas, her not being treated fairly by the in-laws etc. after marriage guyz hardly ever even spend time wiht thier in-laws nor does and its not obligaotry for him to do so.
besides, and iv seen this mostlly in paksitan..but as some1 already mentioned the guy is oging 2 b worshipped for accepting to marry hte igrl in the first place..especially if htere is a class difference(like the igrl is poor and hte guy is rich). so therefore in such scenarios the girls family couldnt care less if he never looked at htier faces again as long as their daughter is taken care of. but i dont see the damad being worshipped as having any link to whether the girl or guy comes from a joint family at all.
so this is y they dont complain..bcs htey really dont have to put up with his sasuraal in these cases described above..generally these are the scenarios for a typical desi mard after marriage
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We're afraid of her 6 brothers who treathen us to dead, that is why we don't complain...
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hahaha @ Numb, but what if she doesn't have any brothers?
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I think that is impossible...
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It’s impossible for some
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acha jao chai piyo or achbaar parro...
We're afraid of her 6 brothers who treathen us to dead, that is why we don't complain...
haha..wht does she do so bad that u guyz feel like complaining?
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becaz women are sweet angels .. they cannot be harsh to guys and yet again they tend to bear everything with or without complaining
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i do.
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I think the reason why women complain more is because they have to deal with their in-laws on a regular basis (at least more than men have to deal with their in-laws). Other than that, most of the times men tend to ignore and not make a big deal out of something small. When men have a problem, instead of whining about it, they actually solve it. When I dislike something (in general), I either shrug my shoulders and ignore it and move on. If it really bothers me, I talk about it to whoever is directly involved with the issue.
I get along with my in-laws. We talk on the phone every now and then and that's pretty much it. When we meet, it's even more fun.
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They don’t love em or hate em, they just don’t care for em 