do all boys think this way

Lifestyle Relationships
41

Re: do all boys think this way

soo watzz the problem the u shud find him a gal who dus wrk den lol

42

:hehe:

Getting married is the last thing in my mind right now :smiley:

43

Re: do all boys think this way

^ oh wow even we think alike , hehehe...

44

High-five dude! You picked up on the “boys” bit too? I made that point in my first post to this thread on the previous page. Nice work…keen eye, Jaanwar. Keen eye!

45

:hehe: Of course. No man likes to be called a boy. Unless he is 40 plus and going for a second marriage with a girl nearly half his age. Oh well.

46

Eeeeew. I forgot that scenario, lol.

47

Re: do all boys think this way

whats wtong wid it - he's straightfwd

48

Re: do all boys think this way

The bottomline is that I personally wouldn't want my wife to work especially in pakistan and especially in offices with abnormal male female ratio and where all kinds of pervys are hitting on her. Moreover, I don't want to leave my kids to naukars who do whatever they want with my angels. I know most women consider this chauvinistic, if she wants to doa job, she can do some lightweight part time teaching or something like or maybe a part time NGO, but I'd rather have a "charaagh-e-khana" rather than "shama-e-mehfil".

Also, playing "modern" and "enlightened" doesn't solve the basic problem of leaving kids to naukars, which is the last thing I'd want to do. I mean, you can push this under the carpet, but the problem is still there and from what I've heard, much more than you can imagine. Im my opinion women who stay at home, cook and clean and teach the kids manners are probably doing a bigger job than a typical office job. Its all about a cost/benefit analysis.

49

Re: do all boys think this way

Welcome to 2009. Women work outside the home and men like the dual income. Let's go a step further and men and women SHARE the home responsibiliies, take turns cooking, doing laundry, etc. Time to wake up and smell progress!

50

[quote="suhaina"]

i

if women is not working she has alot work to do at home like cooking,clenaing,raise kids etc but if man is sitting at home whta will he do he can only wtch tv and newspaper..

Are you serious??? Your dad can also cook and clean and help raise kids.

I'm sure your dad works very hard in his office M-F 9-5. Your mom is working the exact same shift at home. So on the evenings and weekends, it is only fair that BOTH parents contribute to the working of the household. If we say that "oh the man worked all day, he should now relax and watch tv all weekend", isn't this equivalent to saying the woman did not work all day?

51

I wonder how calling the year as 2009 and "waking up to smell the progress" solve the basic problem of leaving your children alone to be abused by naukars ? Or maybe, we should push this thing under the carpet since it is "modern" and "enlightened" to think otherwise.

If women really are meant to do everything men do, then how come we don't see women mechanics, or petrol pump fillers etc in Pakistan ? Chauvinism? no, I think its more like respect and traditions.

The whole concept of MEN = WOMEN is totally wrong. Its like comparing apples and oranges... you can't compare them. Men are good at different jobs while women are good at different stuff. Unfortunately the "enligtened" women in pakistan think that doing a job in the office is the easiest and the most fun thing to do. I think if thats the biggest motivation of a woman's life, she should probably reconsider marrying. Women and men working 9-5 jobs without a proper system to take care of kids are simply asking for trouble.

52

Good post.