how would you feel (response) after your new born baby, he wants DNA test done to confirm he is the father?
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lol a very good question!
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Girls should not have any problem if he is ready to bring DNA of his father too just to make sure that he is Grand father of the baby :)
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Lahori you got way too much time on your hands.
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@Lahori99: it seems you have seen too much of Lahore 
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Trust is the foundation of any successful relationship...including marriage. There is no point in being married to someone who doesn't trust me.
If my husband wanted a DNA test as proof that the baby is his...that's fine. I would do the test and provide the proof he needs to show him that I did not cheat on him.
Soon afterwards, I would hire a divorce lawyer and start proceedings.
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The problem with this generation is that they think divorce is so simple. He asked for DNA test, divorce him. He got pissed off, divorce him. He did not do the laundry, divorce him. He did not clean the freaking diaper, divorce him. She is immature, divorce her. She did not clean the bathroom, divorce her. She hated my mother, divorce. Divorce, divorce and more divorce. Are you outta your minds!
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I'd shoot him.
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I'll kick his ass.
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Maybe the girl should ask the guy If his mom had to show his dad a DNA test too. You know, to confirm that he is the daddy...
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The problem with this generation is that they think divorce is so simple. He asked for DNA test, divorce him. He got pissed off, divorce him. He did not do the laundry, divorce him. He did not clean the freaking diaper, divorce him. She is immature, divorce her. She did not clean the bathroom, divorce her. She hated my mother, divorce. Divorce, divorce and more divorce. Are you outta your minds!
There is a huge difference between divorcing your husband because he doesn't do laundry, and divorcing your husband because he accused you of 1) Having sex with another man and getting pregnant 2) Lying to him (ie. husband) about the true paternity of the child.
If a man demands a DNA test on a child WITHOUT any actual evidence that the wife cheated on him, then that shows a total lack of respect and trust in his wife.
Divorce is not simple. Is staying married to a man who doesn't trust and respect you any better?
There are women out there who may feel differently..... but personally, I can not stay married and continue to share a bed with a husband who actually believed that I cheated on him. This is not about laundry, or clean bathrooms or changing diapers. It brings into question my character as a woman, wife, and mother. Call me selfish but I deserve a husband who respects and trusts me. If this makes me out of my mind then I guess I'm out of my mind.
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Lahori, u don't seem to have a very high opinion of women generally..
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There is a huge difference between divorcing your husband because he doesn't do laundry, and divorcing your husband because he accused you of 1) Having sex with another man and getting pregnant 2) Lying to him (ie. husband) about the true paternity of the child.
If a man demands a DNA test on a child WITHOUT any actual evidence that the wife cheated on him, then that shows a total lack of respect and trust in his wife.
Divorce is not simple. Is staying married to a man who doesn't trust and respect you any better?
There are women out there who may feel differently..... but personally, I can not stay married and continue to share a bed with a husband who actually believed that I cheated on him. This is not about laundry, or clean bathrooms or changing diapers. It brings into question my character as a woman, wife, and mother. Call me selfish but I deserve a husband who respects and trusts me. If this makes me out of my mind then I guess I'm out of my mind.
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You completely missed my point.
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I would feel ..... insulted, humiliated, would get livid with anger..... It is a HUGE insult for a muslim woman if she's asked to get a DNA test to determine the paternity. What kind of a marriage is that?
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Trust is the base of every marriage....damn....i have been carrying your "karistani" inside me all 9 months and you are accusing my character.....no insult can get beyond this....i wont be able to live with him after that!
p.s. lahori plz starplus kamm daikha karo!
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Ok before jumping to conclusions...... under what circumstances would the man be asking for a DNA test?
Yall are looking at it through a married Muslim woman (which most of us are) perspective....but let's not forget theres a big huge world out there, where a DNA test is in the future of many men and women.
Haven't yall ever seen Jerry Springer/Maury povich/montell williams/sally jessy raphael?
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Well said . :k:
Yep, a good tit for tat.
Makes you wonder , No ?
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Lahori you got way too much time on your hands.
^It's more than that.
Dude, you got issues.
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Ok before jumping to conclusions...... under what circumstances would the man be asking for a DNA test?
In Lahori's case, such a request MIGHT be made if the offspring that he and Basanti produce...looks more like the local doodh wala...than Lahori himself. (Never mind the possibility of recessive genes...or that the the child actually resembles some distant grandparent/uncle/aunt on either side of the family). All hell will break loose, because that might mean that Basanti wasn't as khaalis as the Ganga River before the knot was tied.
Seriously Lahori, what is your issue with women and the overly simplistic but extreme assumptions and stereotypes that you come up with?
DNA testing can be done to determine paternity, determine if someone is related to you or not, genealogy research, testing/prevention/delay of disease.