Divorced People

[Monk]

Re: Divorced People

@TLK

I am not going to argue any further but stick to the point that Islam prefers you to marry a virgin unless there is a need to marry a non virgin (divorced, widowed). Here is the full hadees and nothing I said is out of context.

Narrated Jaabir: “Allaah’s Apostle صلى الله عليه وسلم said to me, “Have you got married O Jaabir?” I replied, “Yes.” He asked: “What, a virgin or a matron?” I replied, “Not a virgin but a matron.” He said, “Why did you not marry a young girl who would have fondled with you?” I replied, “O Allaah’s Apostle! My father was martyred on the day of Uhud and left nine (orphan) daughters who are my nine sisters; so I disliked to have another young girl of their age, but (I sought) an (elderly) woman who could comb their hair and look after them.” The Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم said, “You have done the right thing.” [Saheeh al-Bukhaaree (3826)]

1-Prophet very beautifully appreciated his choice.
2-This conversation did not follow with any addressing to rest of the muslims, with any instruction.

I could not understand one thing, there is another hadees, where is a women to me (out of silliness) ask
prophet’s permission to divorce her husband.
Prophet allowed it.
What..
what
just what if prophet realized women her self was not worthy or that man ???

Why we think when prophet dealt with one person, his reaction could not be based one that one person mental/social make up. Rather then a messages for all of us ??
I mean when he did not prolong discussion with saying any thing for other muslims.