Re: Divorced men ..
While I acknowledge many women are genuine victims but not all. We’ve all seen cases where the woman or her family demanded complete humiliation and surrender of the husband. If he surrenders, fine. Otherwise they end things and makeup some stories to satisfy their guilty conscience. Some girls are so lacking in wifely qualities that if you ask their own brothers(given they are being honest) about marrying a girl with similar qualities, they would not. This is not some desi vs Western thing, this is universal. Qualities men look for in a girlfriend or short term relationship are very different compared to qualities they look for in a wife.
I once asked my wife’s brother if he would ever tolerate such disrespect from his wife what her sister dishes out at me and his unequivocal response was, “No”.
This again works both ways. I often challenge my brothers when it comes to how they treat their wives. Alhamdulillah they are very good husbands but certain aspects can definitely be worked on. I wouldn’t tolerate such behaviour from my own husband.