Divorced men ..

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Re: Divorced men ..

@Sahdia77

That is an important point. And another problem in our culture. females often have to remain quiet about what happened to them. It is frowned upon in my family and amonst pakistani family friends whenever a female opens her mouth about her marriage troubles. They say you have to do sabr and remain quiet.

It’s ridiculous how this issue is treated. Especially when females talk about it. I was never allowed to tell people I had left my husband. We would tell people I was just here with his permission. My parents wouldn’t allow me to even tell my friends, not even my Dutch or British friends who weren’t even from Pakistani origin.

They say a good woman won’t spill the beans. Perhaps it’s time to change that.

And that’s exactly why good women suffer needlessly.