Sentry
June 23, 2015, 2:22am
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Re: Divorced man
The reason I ask is because of the divorced men I’ve spoken to, they always say the fault was of the ex wife. These weren’t abusive marriages or nothing extreme but most of the time, they usually point out she and I were totally different or after she came to this country, she got a job with my help she wanted a divorce and now she’s married to some other guy…
Sometimes in those cases people don’t look inwards at all. Why did the wife leave or was there any adjustment made on his part or was it always the wife compromising on everything. There’s always another side.
One of these guys was very uncompromising when it came to just meeting for the first time. I had to do everything as in fly over or drive over. He was not willing to come so that kind of person obviously has not changed or improved much at all. He also wasn’t willing to see how some of his suggestions were just out of the question since we are practically strangers still.
One other divorced guy was completely closed and didn’t even want to talk about something like that. As in “what kind of a negative question is that”? Completely steering away from answering anything regarding his past.
If I was you, I wouldn’t bother with any of these guys. Red flags all over the place. Nothing against divorced souls but you should probably go for a guy who has less baggage than this.