Divorced man

Re: Divorced man

alright I’ll try that first sentence you said and reword it gg estyle.
But can I say the “where he would change things” should not be “I want a woman like this and that” but rather “I want to be this kind of husband for my soon to be wife” type of response.

A person isn’t born perfect into this world, we are constantly changing and bettering ourselves. Why does “improve” bring out such a bad vibe?

I don’t know how else to make it sound better. Is it a punch to the ego to use the word “improve”?