A once-burned tongue forever hesitates.
but then the great Kanye West said:
Th-th-that that don't kill me
Can only make me stronger.
Also interesting is how differently divorce is seen in today's culture. For hundreds of years inc & after the time of the Prophet and the rule of the Companions, divorce was given left and right, so easily, seemingly without a second thought. And there were no real repercussions to them, or to society. And this was with the understanding that "Divorce is the most hated of the lawful in the eyes of God." But they were still doing it, so much so, that we have all these Islamic laws pertaining to divorce!
Divorce is still different things in different places ... Arabia and Pakistan?