Re: divorce
No compromising at all and "my word is law and there is no use trying to change my mind".
If the one spouse wants to get marriage counseling and the other feels it is not necessary even if there are arguments every other day on the same unresolved issues then what other choice is there.
If the one spouse feels like the arguments are taking the life out of him/her and can't handle it anymore. Imagine a whole lifetime of this:(.
Divorce is such a scary word though. It freaks me out. I would be the person who tries to find every possible solution to all the problems rather than end up with a divorce. Why can't both spouses feel this way, that their valuable marriage will end if they both don't put the effort into saving it?
This is so true....How long can that home be a seed of continual conflict instead of being a safe haven where one enters to wash away all the worries of the outside world...How long can a human being keep his/her defences up...is always in the attack/escape mode...where can we as humans be themselves...if the house never becomes a HOME!!!! How long should it be endeared ...in the name of the kids???? Will the kids grow up NOrmally...living in a what only APPEARS as a normal Home????