Re: divorce
if there are major problems in the marriage and one spouse just does not want to try to resolve the issues, there is no other way out.
No compromising at all and "my word is law and there is no use trying to change my mind".
If the one spouse wants to get marriage counseling and the other feels it is not necessary even if there are arguments every other day on the same unresolved issues then what other choice is there.
If the one spouse feels like the arguments are taking the life out of him/her and can't handle it anymore. Imagine a whole lifetime of this:(.
Divorce is such a scary word though. It freaks me out. I would be the person who tries to find every possible solution to all the problems rather than end up with a divorce. Why can't both spouses feel this way, that their valuable marriage will end if they both don't put the effort into saving it?