That is why in Islam it is said that a Man should provide her with the essentials that she is accustomed to(meaning dont marry into some family that you as a man cannot provide her with what her parents did)...any way the best virtue to see in a mate is that of Good Character...I have heard that molvis who really know our religion best ....have a very fulfilling home life as they follow Islamic teachings in how to keep a wife content...:) ....