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I am mufti in Bay area, and I declare this divorce as final.
So, u divorce him back, and get a new husband.
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Well the technological advancements seem to have given divorce a new look too i guess :p I got divorced through email too so i guess its the same as an sms but still ask a scholar for confirmation
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yeah tough tweety i agree(by the way HI!!!) but kaha se dhoondoo here in uk its complicated
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:( What kind of dickheads were you women married to? :(
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exactly the ones u described in yr other post sara!!! total idiots and good for nothing
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Meeni, How old are u? and what is the education level. For crying out loud, no SMS texts are .... Fk that. Get a lawyer and do it properly.
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im 29 and i am well educated enuf to get a good job here in uk should i get a muslim lawyer?
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^^ I would get a jewish lawyer and finish this madness, then I would move out of my parents house and live me life the way I would want to live. Free with ample choices and should I make the wrong decision I am the only one to blame.
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i wouldnt leave my parents unless i met some1 else and got married to them
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no (lolz)i think ill just chill here in my parents house and enjoy being single and free again!!!
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Wow !
Perhaps I should open an online divorce center, where husbands can come, identify themselves and then leave three talaqs for their spouses.
Nice idea !
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Why do you have to leave three talaqs? Why not just one? Seems like this type of divorce is done out of anger and resentment by the husband and not done through clear thinking.
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Cool Idea!! u can have a site called www.apni-talaq-yahan-dain.com 
& if u can cut a deal with AOL that would be great make them say You Just Got Divorced whenever a divorce is sent by mail – Wat do u think?
Hi Meeni! I am fine how r u doing? Hope ur taking care of urself & please try to get over the jerk----Sab say pehlay change your signature my dear koi acha sa positive signature rukho & anytime u need me I am here:hug:
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Meena Im sorry you had to go through all this, Im aware of people who got “talaak’d” via email but im not going to get into technicalities because giving anecdotes from other peoples lives is going to confuse you further…
Because there are lots of Aalims in the UK who have studied in a variety of places they tend to have different ways on doing things.
My advice, get yourself some one to tell you whats what… Phone Regents Park Mosque (Islamic Cultural Centre)
http://www.iccuk.org/icc/location.htm
or go there and TALK to someone… if you cant go there speak to somebody who specialises in this subject, over the phone.
they should have peopel there to help with emotional probs too if not they’ll advise you further on where to obtain this help.
Get your marriage terminated in a religious sense and legally too if you have have had a civil marriage ceremony. (If divorce is what you truly want)
Make a clean break in order to start your life again…
and so he doesnt have any grounds to worm his way back in your life a few months or years down the line.
Hope everything works out for you:)
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Hi Masterofall240! 
My husband sent me a divorce after discussing it out with an alim & he wrote it 3 times in a go. So i dont know if it was out of anger or wat.
From wat i know Islam main divorce is the last resort which should be avoided until there is absolutely no way around it. Also divorce dainay ka proper tareeqa hota hai which sadly no one seems to follow.
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Actually, instead of male voice saying “You got mail”, the AOL male voice would say “You got divorced” 
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Tweety,
but what's the logic behind the three times rule. if your ex-husband discussed with an Alim then that means he came to a conclusion based on that conversation, so why the need for saying talaq three times?
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From wat i know once is enough. After saying it once the divorce becomes valid but is actually completed after 3 months, & if during this time the husband and wife reach a mutual agreement and want to get back they can. But the dramas & films i guess have made such a psychological impact on people that they assume that unless u say it 3 times it aint over.