Re: Divorce children...help
He is your sons father and you cannot take that away from him. Let me talk to his father if he wants to, and let your ex speak to his son whenever he wants to. Don't let your personal feelings towards your ex come in the way.
I think you are missing the point...
the father left him and hasnt been in contact with him nor has he shown any concern for him. if he really wanted to be a part of his sons life he would have done something about it by now.