salam everyone! Sorry that i discontinued from the gupshup forum and didnt reply for the last thread answers in a deep manner.I’m heartly sorry.
Now i’m getting very much tense as my MIL said to my father that she doesnt want to see my face ever and she doesnt want me now.Such a worst situation came in my life. please people give me peace without saying me harsh words.
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may Allah ease your sufferring sister. Aameen
have faith in Allah. He does what is best for us.
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I sincerely hope that things get better for you, DA. It's Ramzan, make lots of dua, I hope that you find peace soon, IA.
And I know that this is NOT the time you'd want to hear any version of "We told you so."
But you came to the Life Forum when you were only engaged to your now husband........and almost all the members (male/female) advised you not to marry him. It's important to listen to one's heart......and i know it's easier said than done to also listen to your head/dimagh.........but I hope that you will implement a greater sense of practicality in your future decisions regarding your marriage and child.
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I hope things get better for you. Seek professional counseling, that is going to be helpful.
Why do people expect you to reply to their responses? You make a post and people reply. Its really up to you to respond (or not) in any manner you seem fit.
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oh my god, why would she say that, sorry im assuming you had an issue before and as RV said most people told you not marry...whats happened since?
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May Allah ease up ur difficulties .
U r having very difficult times.. I hope and pray to Allah that u get ur share of happy moments soon. Aameen
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Sigh
facedesk
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whats the use of any advice as history tells, you never take it
may God give peace of mind to you and 'hidayat' to you and ur in laws
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Try talking to your husband directly. (When are you expecting your baby?)
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D.A Angel.
Your threads are funny girl. You leave in the midst of your threads and leave evrybody wondering.
Regarding the MIL, slow poison her. Its the month of ramzan :)
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disturbed dear.. i read ur thread from last april.. y would u have a problem if his sister comes n sits in her mayka a lot after marraige?..u said ud have to take care of her too..whether she comes n sits in her house is not ur concern dear.. did u say this to him? no wonder they're fuming..plus you out right told him u dont want to live with his parents..what did u expect?..ur thinking is very wrong..n chalo even if u think like that y did u say that in front of him?...uffffff..n if these things were really bothering u ..u should not have done this marriage then..
laiken ab jab hogia heh..so u should change ur thinking..tell him u were wrong to say that..this is the only way he will get any better with you..its not about right and wrong now..its about saving ur marrage.. IF that is what u would want to do of course..
good luck
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On another note..why are all women foolish..
Its like you all want to fall for the wrong guys..
Shame.. Shame all shame... Well
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HEY, what happened to the girl? what thread? i dont remember but everyone else seems to, whats the issue?
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Baby will be due in december but because of all these tensions i'm feeling premature pains nowadays.Everybody left me alone.Husband is saying me worst words continuously and MIL is doing like this.SIL and her husband never talks to me. Now dont know where my relation is going.I'm helpless.Even In this situation my husband doesnt care and saying to me that it will be good if u will die.My brain is bursting and i'm completely dead now.
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Man what has the world come to :(
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D.A you do not tell us about your problem specifically, so its difficult to give the ideal advice.
I think its clear, that the problems are not stemmed from you, and that it is only your in-laws that are behaving badly.
D.A angel have you not got any brothers or anybody that would go and tell them them you have people to stick up for you and tell them this rubbish will not be tolerated.
As this is totally unwarrented behaviour - all the while your pregnant?!
The best people do deal with the in-laws would be your family. I would say apart from that, possibly due to the fact you ave entered a new enviroment and way of living that could require adjustment/comprimise, that there isnt anything knowingly or unknowling omitted from your side.
I mean the easisest you could do is ensure your side is clean.
Also, your husband may could to see a counselor/pchyologist. He may have other issues. I give him a little slack, as he has not always acted like this.
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can someone please summarise what happened in the past threads.....because i havent read them..
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On another note..why are all women foolish..
Its like you all want to fall for the wrong guys..
Shame.. Shame all shame... Well
and what is the nishani of a right guy???:@:..wo konsa tag laga ker phirtay hain ???
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^They dont
Only the faking guys have tags and guises that everybody know attracts the dumb fish..girl
So- I would say just because somebody demonstrates idealness, it doesnt require it. Check the statements for credibiity before getting attached.
Get coaxed by sweet talks and let them have thier way why dont you.
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Why are you so scared of your MIL and SIL? They probably can't earn a buck even if their life depended on it. They are pretty much useless and want to show their power by stomping all over you. Stay strong (I know it's easier said than done) and just ignore them all.