Re: Disturbed .
But it they are ignoring me , then what's my future as they don't want me and hubby is continuously acting bad to me..So,Will i always live at my mom's place ? Because there's no chance to live with MIL and FIL as they don't wanna live with me and secondly hubby is not in Karachi.If i will go to abroad then i'm afraid of the bad behavior of my hubby.Therefore totally no solution for me.
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^Stay with your parents, finish your studies, get a job and build a future for yourself and your child. No use living with such a husband. OR go live with your husband and give it a try, see how it goes.
Why would you want to live with your in-laws anyway? A married woman's place is with her husband, not her in-laws.
Re: Disturbed .
Send them home-baked chocolate chip cookies.
Re: Disturbed .
sorry to hear that dear
a mrried life is not just of 2 people but two families
have your time, think about it!!!! wat we see wud be somewat different also in ur real life as we r not there side by side of u
take care
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D.A.
I recall I know of a similar situation where a friend is in dubai and he is currently unable to call his wife.
D.A, since we do not know exactly how bad and what your MIL is doing, its less easier to give optimum advice.
You know- what I do feel, is that your husbnad maybe struggling to make a decent income in dabi, his family knows this and they feel embarassed and have a hard showing it. They are finding it hard to meet your sensible needs and rant at you to shut you up and to cover up thier inferiorities.
^ Thats just a possbility. You need to think inteligently at the same time looking after your sensitive condition.
Dont take too much tension. It is wiser to stay in your 'maikka' if it gives you greater peace and security, until the delivery.
You are now in this situation, and the priority is to help you.
I did suggest to you to get your families prominent people to talk to them..I hope you thought about it.
I am amazed, If your husband is actualy telling you to die on the phone.
Your family must ask them why are they behaving like this.
I didnt want to say it and god forbid, but I hope they are not deliberatly making excuses to make you ask for a divorce..
People help her plssz!
Need ideas....
Princess...D.A came on the forum initially around 1 year ago, and was complaining of a very harsh attituded fiance, and was asking us if she should go ahead with the marriage or not.
Most of us advised her to get her parents to speak to her in-laws about it. She did this and, replied to us that her in-laws reacted postivly and amended thier behaviour to an extent and that she was going ahead with the marriage.
D.A angel, then returned, 3 months back, being married and pregnant, claiming that her husband and in-laws are again becoming abusive and this time very neglectful. She returned home for some peace.
Now she has come back to the forum with this thread.
Help her guys.. I already tried + im exhausted from polygamy threads
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may Allah give you respect and Dignity in ur susraal ,..
Ya Aziz ,