NS2
February 17, 2012, 9:41am
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I went through something like this by an uncle, although not to that extent in the case of the OP’s friend but still terrible nonetheless. I told my mom and guess what she did? She asked if I dreamt it and then when we had an argument over a misunderstanding the next day and she blurts out “I bet you lied about it” as a pathetic comeback. Heh. Needless to say, I have never trusted her since then to protect me. And to add to it, she seems to be even MORE nicer to d-bag now. :halo:
I’m over it now but for future mothers/parents: GROW A PAIR AND LEARN TO STAND UP FOR YOUR CHILD. I just know I will never be a weak, oh-no-one-will-believe-you type of a mom, ever. There is nothing more important than the well-being of your child and family and frankly, WHO GIVES A SH*T what people think? Same goes for future rishtas. Are people w/ such mentalities worth marrying your child to? No.
I cannot believe we still have people who still go by the “Oh, the girl will be blamed and humiliated so let’s bury this under the rug and that’ll be it.” WTH!? We allow it to happen when we think like that. Any person who abuses/gropes/rapes/molests needs to be humiliated, lashed out upon, cussed at, degraded in the worst way possible and disowned by their families. If they don’t think twice before violating someone then what the hell are we protecting them for?
I can totally relate to u M..sometimes parents r just not the right option to turn to..everyone knows their parents best..so victim would have told them if she trusted them to b of any help..