Re: Distant Relationships
MulTany-MalaNg:
i have been married five years, had known my wife several years before that. I live in Uk and she in Pakistan. We have mostly had a long distance relationship, with the exception of living together for 3 years when we first got married. I came back to study again and it really sucks. Sje doesn’t want to come over for one reason or another but I am on the fone daily for about an hour, send each other sms every few mins (even when i am sat in lectures), she stays awake all night cos i am sending sms and then i stay awake all night cos she is sending sms to me. On top of all that we even write to each other every 2 weeks, and really long letters. Sometimes i think if i didnt fone at least i could visit at least once a month (all the saving from the fone bill) but when it comes down to it we couldnt cope without having spoken everyday. i go back every holidays december and summer, but long distance SUCKS BADLY. I pray all the time that this ends soon, but i still got at least 7 years studies to go
On another note, reply to a thread i read here. when your other half tells you you dont care about her just cos you havent foned for 2 days or why you havent foned for 2 days had no excuse. This irritates so much and hurts really bad. you end up feeling like she doesnt really know you and how much you care and love for her. Women please dont think about the 2 days he didnt fone ut rather all the times that he does!!!
aww wow mashallah that is sooo cute i pray Allah blesses your marriage and keeps the love and mercy between you! and i pray that Allah makes your time easy for you both and accpets this sacrifice which you both have made…because i know..it such a hard sacrifice..and after reading your comment im never ever going to say to my husband why didnt you ring/text..you dont care about me crap…i kknow how he must feel and i feel bad for saying it to him!