Over the years i've seen girls try to achieve the super skinny look, especially white women. It trully hurt me because these women were forced to have a negative image of themselves by what the media portrays,to be beautiful you have to be thin. Many women would do anything to achieve this image but they are only cheating themselves. Recently though, I have been seeing desi girls trying to achieve the super thin look! I thought desi girls were better than that, i didnt think they would conform to such a hidious idea of being super thin. Desi women are known for thier incredilbe curvy bodies and being voloptuous, western women envy us becuase we are soo porpotioned! Then i see desi girls dieting, excersicing, starving themselves and am like what are you doing?!?! There is nothing sexy about skin and bones, guys especially desi guys are appauled by super skinny women, they think it looks sickly. I spoke with many of my guy friends and have been told they would pick a healthy girl over a stick thin girl anyday. What can be attractive about a women whose bone stick out and looks like she hasnt eaten for days? When i met my fiance i was 115 lb at 5'4 i was thin but not super thin, then over 2 years i gained about a good 10 pounds that was distributed to my arms chest and legs. My fiance told be how i was always beautiful to him, but how much more attractive i look. I asked him how come you never told me to gain weight, he said he didnt want to hurt my feelings lol. My point being, skinny does not equal beauty, heathy equals beautiful, love yourselves for whatever shape you have. Never feel insecure about being not thin, guys like girls with meat on them. If you are overweight take care of yourself, your goal does not have to be skinny, just healthy. Take a look around you, most pretty girls are not really skinny but healthy.
this makes me feel madd left out
im desi and im not voluptious im thin
on the other hand i actually feel girls have more pressure to be curvy
i feel like girls that r thin have alwayz bin labeled as anorexic .... so ya i think evryoe should be happy the way they r as long as tehy r healthy
real women arnt curvy or thin ..real women are diiferent and come in different shapes and sizes..
a woman not having curves dosnt make her ne less of a wman then sumone who duzz
I have heard it. Pakistani/Indian women have very nice proportions and men like that. This is not to to be confused with obesity. A woman who has a nice upper and lower body is not skinny. She is curvy and voluptous. It wasnt meant to be flat people, thats a man.
Im not chubby/fat or skinny and I get compliments all the time. No, Im not bragging about myself. Simply stating that I will not conform to a magazines's idea of beauty when I like myself the way I am. I have friends who cannot fill out their clothes and I can.
Im happy. :)
You prove my point perfectly! A women with a nice upper and lower body is not skinny but curvy, this is what i wanted to convey to desi girls out there dieting, dont go for the anorexic look bc being curvy is sooo much more attractive. Most white girls cant fill there clothes but we desi girls can!!! This doesnt mean im promoting eating everything you see no, be fit and toned keep yourself active. Just dont starve yourself to be super skinny. Love your curves, its what a women is meant to have :)
My question is ....what part of Pakistan are you from? Most Pakistani women have amazing bodies! Even all of my family and friends here were blessed with beautiful figures, i dont know what kind of women you've been seeing? lol
oh and your comment about my fiance being a chubby chaser??? What is that all about? hes in med school meaning hes a health freak!! He's all about being active and getting the appropriate nutrition, trust me it gets annoying after a while. btw check your stats dude, 5'4 and 125lb you call that chubby??? i call that fit
but i guess your the type of guy who prefers paris hilton over kim karadarshin?
I rest my case.
hes a health freak!! He's all about being active and getting the appropriate nutrition, trust me it gets annoying after a while. btw check your stats dude, 5'4 and 125lb you call that chubby??? i call that fit
but i guess your the type of guy who prefers paris hilton over kim karadarshin?
I rest my case.
Im curvy, and workout and eat fruit and veggies to achieve the skinny look but alas, I know my body shape won't change! I once did achieve the skinny look and was like that for about 2 years...now I'm back to being 'normal' and its freaking me out!!
I think "Asian" women are beautiful and Asia includes Pakistan. Desi women used to be slender now eating McDonalds and KFC is in fashion in Karachi and an Asian body type cannot sustain that sort of assault. Personaly, a slender frame is both healthy and attractive for both men and women and natural for the region. That being said, there are many regions of Paksitan where the populations are 'caucasian' or 'white' they might not be considered thus but they are racially different from the Asian body type, it might be natual for them to big. anyways, Obesity is a bigger problem than anorexia (read some stats) In the US Anorexia is a problem of the Rich and Obesity is a problem of the poor hence the proportion of eating disorders that lead to skininess is given more attention,where actually obsesity is destroying both the heath and aesthetic of the population. Look at some tribes in nature sometime.... human bodies are beautiful when the are svelte and fit. like I said leave the Lard asses to the midwest.
i agree with all of you, too skinny doesnt look good at all. The media affects us so much, i mean even my 8 yrs old sister is, she always ask " i am the thinnest in the family, right?"
she hardly eat healthy. and i akways tell her that u watch Tv too much!
once i told her that if u dont eat healthy u wont grow taller either, nd then she got surprised and started eating.
desi girls are going crazy cause desi guys arent all that keen on having fatties as gfs of wives anymore .... I mean seriously the tv thing has effected men as much as women!!! Not all guys are as nice as your fiance, some actually want skin and bones!!! That said I'm still and always will be against crash diets and all that crazinesss.
Im curvy, and workout and eat fruit and veggies to achieve the skinny look but alas, I know my body shape won't change! I once did achieve the skinny look and was like that for about 2 years...now I'm back to being 'normal' and its freaking me out!!
lol
so probably that's the firs reason you get guys attention.
Not that other list that you mention in other thread .
hahaha
just kidding.
I reckon most guys just want a healthy looking girl. Not skinny, not fat.
Gosh that kim karadarshin person is beautiful.. I wish my tummy was as flat as hers though! its ok... after popping the babies i shall try to get one too... lol.
yes and we are reall women ladies so dont try to be stick thin......i remember when i was sooo fat and i lost sooo much weight coz i wanted to be stick thin......and i looked sooo sick and boney yuck! now i am happier being curvier
