^ see, saying "boney" vs curvy, thats not nice either. Ppl should be happy with what they are (or change within reason if they're not) and most of all, just let the other person live their life! If someone is happy with how they look then why is it a problem for anyone else?
ALso sarashah i think u have met the rare rare minority of women who actually do care. but for the most of us we come across way too many haters. Noone can stand to see a woman be happy with her body/looks. (hell nobody likes to see others happy, but that's a whole other topic).
The whole point of this thread (well what i think it is) is that one shouldn't go ape-nuts over something that they cannot be, just b/c of 1) what stupid ppl say, and 2) what the even stupider media tells u to look like. Some girls are naturally thin, and some girls are not, but neither of us have the right to call the other fat or ugly or lardasses or boney or whatever.
brilliant!