Over the years i've seen girls try to achieve the super skinny look, especially white women. It trully hurt me because these women were forced to have a negative image of themselves by what the media portrays,to be beautiful you have to be thin. Many women would do anything to achieve this image but they are only cheating themselves. Recently though, I have been seeing desi girls trying to achieve the super thin look! I thought desi girls were better than that, i didnt think they would conform to such a hidious idea of being super thin. Desi women are known for thier incredilbe curvy bodies and being voloptuous, western women envy us becuase we are soo porpotioned! Then i see desi girls dieting, excersicing, starving themselves and am like what are you doing?!?! There is nothing sexy about skin and bones, guys especially desi guys are appauled by super skinny women, they think it looks sickly. I spoke with many of my guy friends and have been told they would pick a healthy girl over a stick thin girl anyday. What can be attractive about a women whose bone stick out and looks like she hasnt eaten for days? When i met my fiance i was 115 lb at 5'4 i was thin but not super thin, then over 2 years i gained about a good 10 pounds that was distributed to my arms chest and legs. My fiance told be how i was always beautiful to him, but how much more attractive i look. I asked him how come you never told me to gain weight, he said he didnt want to hurt my feelings lol. My point being, skinny does not equal beauty, heathy equals beautiful, love yourselves for whatever shape you have. Never feel insecure about being not thin, guys like girls with meat on them. If you are overweight take care of yourself, your goal does not have to be skinny, just healthy. Take a look around you, most pretty girls are not really skinny but healthy.
this makes me feel madd left out
im desi and im not voluptious im thin
on the other hand i actually feel girls have more pressure to be curvy
i feel like girls that r thin have alwayz bin labeled as anorexic .... so ya i think evryoe should be happy the way they r as long as tehy r healthy
real women arnt curvy or thin ..real women are diiferent and come in different shapes and sizes..
a woman not having curves dosnt make her ne less of a wman then sumone who duzz