Disrespectful in laws

[ninjamummy]

Re: Disrespectful in laws

@newbee13

Soconfused thank you so much. Check inbox please.
Simawaq thank you for the advice.. I’ve already decided how I’ll be upbringing my children. It’s the little things we notice later..like a few months back a relative got a job In the city and they didn’t want him to come over to stay.. I felt it as being odd to make excuses.. But people are like that I guess. My parents are very helpful to people and I guess that’s why my house had alot of barakat.
My values definitely differ from in laws. As they are not religious while my family is quite religious.. Hope I can make my husband pray

Sorry i have 20+ years of marriage over you.

1. Why on Earth did you marry your husband if you knew they were not as religious as your family.

2. If it were my daughter i would tell her to stop acting pretty darn arrogant, and you wanted this marriage, so make it work. Stop over sensitising each issue.

3. Before you tout your religious- osity, My own father was not a religious person, his naikiya were amazing. He would give the shirt off his back to those in need. Upon his deathbed, he died reciting the Kalimah again and again. So advice here, please do not think because you hit the floor praying 5 times a day, or observe purdah makes you better.

When my father died, my BIL attended another mosque in another town for Jummah prayer. after the prayer the imam stood up and announced "There is a Brother on his deathbed, who was instrumental in helping our students get these prayer facilities 20 years ago, this same brother donates generously "

My BIL and others then asked the imam who the sick brother was , and that they would like to visit him .

The Imam then disclosed the name. The name was my father’s, can you imagine that. After which my BIL informed the Imam of his relationship and that he had passed away two days prior.

So some advice, don’t judge..