Re: Disrespectful in laws
You are entering this marriage already aware of all the drama. Clearly your feelings for your husband outweigh all the bad stuff. Remember that.
Since you agreed to move in to your in-laws house, depending on the situation, there might be times when you will have to allow the jaithani to “interfere” with your life in order to keep peace with your husband/in-laws. This is part of the package that you have chosen to accept. The best thing for you to do is to always make sure that your husband is ok with whatever you’re doing when it comes to your jaithani. Anytime you want to do (or not do) something in order to prevent the jaithani from interfering in your life…make sure you speak to your husband BEFORE it’s done and make sure he’s willing to defend you if your in-laws get upset. If you can do that…then things will be fine.