No I am not the victim, the one doing it. I cant get over the fact that my dad wants to hire an ex-stripper. I understand that shes a good woman now atleast thats what she has talked him into believing and she has also shown interest in Islam but I dont think a persons character can change. Somewhere in my heart i know shes talking him into it for money but he thinks shes really changed and she is trying to become a good person and he wants to give her a chance. I cant 
It bothers the hell out of me
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hire for what?
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lol that must sound really bad.
He wants to hire her as an admin assistant
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let him hire her on trial bases, c where it goes
i believe in second chances,
so u never know maybe she has changed
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hmm I am not really stopping him well I do give him strong hints that i dont like it but i just i dont know my mind thinks shes dirty :-/
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i allways thought the greatest obstacle to women respect is other women point of view....Barfee you're the right example....
really sad
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app keu abu hazoor tou bhut rangeen mizaaj hain...hum tou becharay jawani mein bhee strippers key saath kuch nahee kar sakay aur woh budhapen mein........
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3 month probabation period. if she's willing to change, then why not give her a chance. you never know, she could become a muslim :)
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leave me dad out of this or i will poke your eyes out and I am not even joking. Where do you live chicago? thats not even 4 hrs away from here....say oen more word and i wont be afraid to hire a hit man
Prissenoor I am trying to change, amn't I? If i was ok with disrespecting her than i wouldnt be upset about it and i def wouldnt change anything. The fact that I opened this thread shows i am TRYING to get over it and maybe some people here can help me get over it rather than pointing fingers at me. Thank you very much
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Prassenoor just so you know, I can get her fired if I want the fact I am not doing it also shows that I am trying...
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You do know that these words can be used against you...right.
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Well, I don't see a big deal about it. Its a work situation. She's hired for a job, not for anything else. And well, I suppose you trust your dad, righto? Talk to him about it and let him know you feel uncomfortable, if you really still do. Let him make the decision he needs to make.
Look at it this way, if your dad was going to cheat, he would do it whether or not he hires this girl. If he's not going to cheat, then it doesn't matter if this woman is STILL a stripper. He'll restrain himself if he chooses to.
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I think you realizing that you are discriminating is a step in the right direction :k:
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ouiii maa...yeh barfee hai yah sabz mirch..
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Barfee if people would not change then no one would convert to Islam or any other religion.
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^what r u trying to imply? hare dare you..hitmen are already on their way to take u out..
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lussi - i am confused...