Re: Disabilities in the kids
Regardless of what many strong believers tell you, (first) cousin marriages do have an influence on the health of the child. The stats clearly suggest that about eastern countries, and I don´t see a reason to oppose that. If a religion allows a practice, or even if something was practised by the leaders or the big personalities of a religion, that doesn´t make it compulsory.
As for the position, I can´t advise much. I know of a position which is most safe, most practised and one that my cousin didn´t find out about either. You figure it out!
This still holds tight the top position mind you (pun intended!)…
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_mLmmOPxu6c
I misread the “chute” bit as something entirely different.