If only folks knew what I know about some folks :halo:
Discussing sexual issues is not haraam. It’s not inappropriate. It’s actually healthy and makes for healthier marriages → less cheating in the long run within a community.
I’d rather talk about these things openly in a community of friends I have gotten to know over the past decade, as oppose to flying out to meet some beau of mine in secret and risk exploring these topics in a more physical way, which will just hurt me in the long run. People who are not openly discussing these topics and being mentored by people who are more experienced in our society end up being in the latter group.
It is healthy to talk about these topics. It is not healthy to explore them behind closed doors and make it seem like you’re a total virgin and you haven’t ever seen anything or done anything. Unfortunately, most of your “seedhi saadhi” pakistani girls fall into the latter group.
I’ll openly admit to my significant other about what I have seen or done. I have nothing to hide. And the fact that I openly discuss these topics without a problem shows that I’m not shy about these topics or immature about them.