Dilemma

[Princess1983]

re: Dilemma

@Paheli00

2 Things You need to think about before marrying this guy:

1. He agreed to stay in the UK and now due to “situation change”, he is not following his words. What guarantee do you have that AFTER marriage, he will not do this again? Once you become his wife, IF he stop following is words again for whatever reason…what will you do then? Divorce him or move to his country? Ask yourself what will you do if this happens after marriage.

2. He’s ready to leave UK but you don’t want him to. If in the future after marriage he starts having financial problems…I guarantee you that he WILL “blame” you for “making” him stay in the UK. Are you ready to be “responsible” for him staying in the UK?

Paheli has said what a few of us are thinking. You need to weigh up the pros and cons. Do you work? If so can you not try and support him rather than turning to your family?

I know I’m bashing on about not turning to your family for support, however it’s a given that if you work hard for what you achieve it has greater value in the long run and it’s not your families responsibity to sort all this out either.