Re: Dilemma
my suggestion wud b
a) let ur parents kno or atleast give them some sort of indication
b) he has to do the same, if he doesnt want to lose u, by letting parents kno atleast u r covering all grounds otherwise ur parents will start to reject ur excuses for the guys rishta's coming thru.
c) once everythin is out in the air.....u got to take things from there..........it is a fair point that he is very young n he needs to extablish himself yet, however being officially engaged or atleast non officially...e.g ' baat teh ho jaye' kinda thing within families should work in ur circumstances