hey lilmizsunshine........
okay im kinda confused here........i had posted a thread related with marriage and marriage sites etc etc ...... i thot u mentioned there that u hv told about ur other half to ur parents??????????
they met at a huge gathering- and i introduced them to my mom as the guy- it wasnt a one on one thing as a rishtaa or sumthing-- but my mom doesnt recall who they were-this was a long tiem back now- the only thing bothering me is the rishta's comming to my house--
and sorry Orpheus- but im not saying i have interest in the other guys--its just that if there is no reason for my parents to say no- (ex, his job, his looks, him being responsible and able to take care of me-) then what reason shuld i find to say no?? trust me ur not a girl but most of the girls can probably figure out what im talking about- but thanks for ur opinion--
my suggestion wud b
a) let ur parents kno or atleast give them some sort of indication
b) he has to do the same, if he doesnt want to lose u, by letting parents kno atleast u r covering all grounds otherwise ur parents will start to reject ur excuses for the guys rishta's coming thru.
c) once everythin is out in the air.....u got to take things from there..........it is a fair point that he is very young n he needs to extablish himself yet, however being officially engaged or atleast non officially...e.g ' baat teh ho jaye' kinda thing within families should work in ur circumstances
I don't understand why he can't atleast talk to your parents, tell them he wants to finish his education and then think about marriage. That process of just talking and looking into it will take a few months, then you can decide to do an engagement after a few months, and then marriage can come after MBA or do a nikah before rukhsati later.
If he says he doesn't even wanna talk about it, you know where you stand in his long list of priorities.