Re: dilemma
irem ji: thanks for ur reply but panga yeh hai ke she knows how much she hurt me during my ug days.. ek baar maine zikr bhi kiya ke why dont we ug classmates get together sometime etc. usne kaha yeh sab namumkin hai.. i still dont like some ppl (some of the friends in my gang) and its not possible.. and then she apologized half-heartedly ki politics ke liye mujhe tumhe ill-treat karna pada.. i cudnt see a tinge of remorse for her actions.. and she said all that as if it was the most natural thing to do in that situation.. its like u let down a friend just becos u can score some points with some guy.. 
and she certainly is the kind of person who does a hell alot of backbiting… heck man i am doing some major bitching here… even guys have pms 
haan but what u say is rite: when someone comes asking for help its very hard to say no esply if u are not busy or something.. i really cant lie fluently aur upar se if someone asks me for help when i am free, one thing that naturally comes up is “sure”.. tats been a prob sometimes cuz i end forgetting it if its not too critical or something.. been into bad blood at times for being absent-minded abt such things…
anyways, i am really overwhelmed by all ur replies… app logon ne itna waqt bitaya is nacheez ke masle pe.. hum bahut mehrbaan hain..
mannn… school mein bs kar kar ke zaban se sirf bs ^^ hi nikalta hai 