Re: Dilemma thats killing me
i so much agree with redvelvet.live together.share good moments without lecturing or being critical.earn that love n respect where she follows u unquestionably n blindly.mend her ways lke u mend a child.praise for every single effort she makes no matter how trivial.
if u want her to pray regularly u can start by praying together intitially.then slowly start going to mosque together.that will help her getting used to the idea n being more regular.having circle of friends whose wives wear hijab also make it easier for a lady to wear one or atleast think abt it.but always remember go slow n steady.never expect results right away.remember the harder u push the more resistance u might experience.so be mellow n flexible keep working on that goal n even if u never succeed completely u still b very dear in Allahs eyes for being a good muslim n better husband.