Mirch
April 29, 2009, 2:48pm
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Her major issue is that she cannot overcome negative perceptions she has built for other people. She will never confirm if or check what the other persons intentions were but simply accuse them in her heart until it comes to a point that no explainations or clarifications have any effect. I wish she appreciated the family and love of parents and others she had not experienced, but from her actions, it almost feels like she has lost trust in the world and might also believe that love does not exist. I have never heard from her if she likes any single person in her circle of life, not even her own siblings.
I was in denial for the longest time that she will be delighted to be part of a well knit, happy and loving family where people are there for you at all times.
I cannot tell if she will ever change. I wish I knew her that well.
I cannot accept her the way she is. My jannah are my parents and how can I even distance myself from them when they are innocent like a new born in this whole affair.
She is barely 24, very protected throughout life and has no real life experience of the world. One other reason I did not want to divorce because I felt bad for her. It might be too late when she realizes what shes been asking for. Unfortunately, she lost her mom at a young age and does not even remember her as much. Dad came from a different mindset and couldn’t give that motherly love to her so she almost never learnt some essential lessons of life from anyone.
What shall I do? I pray to Allah in every Salah to show me right path and take away whats not good for me.
Thank you for reading.
Just for that she needs a shrink before she gets married to anybody so does her whole family. she does no need a husband at this moment. See to it that she and the family gets that kind of help if they do not find some nicer girl and a nice family.
100 percent on the mark.
