That sounds good. Inshallah, I will be patient.
Answering some of your questions from earlier posts, Yes, she prays regularly and tries to dress modestly. She does not go out much and has mostly decent friends. I would say she is more cultural pakistani muslim than a Muslim.
She attends Quran Khanis which I am not the biggest fan of but atleast she feels she is doing a good deed which is great mashallah. She did not ge the chance to be closer to masjid or listen to good lectures etc. since her family doesn't even pray Juma' at best.
For her conditions, she is probably a very good muslim. I spoke to her friend recently and in her view, she is the most pious girl ever. I guess relatively she is and Allah knows best. I do not question anyones piety, I just want her to be humble and open towards Islamic injunctions and be less tubborn in daily matters of life. Again, the reason I bring Islam is because I feel if we follow what Islam tells us to in our roles in life, many issues get solved automatically, subhanallah.
I just wish her Dad was, Allah guide him.
Every girl is different. I have seen some women wear hijab on their head and really tight clothes underneath. I've seen some women who cover their hair and wear proper clothes. I've seen some women who don't do hijab but they still dress modestly and conduct themselves in a respectful manner. And i've seen some women who don't do hijab and don't dress decently.
Every woman is different. Don't worry too much about what every other woman thinks. MashaAllah your wife has agreed to at least wear hijab for some occasions. And if she was not raised by her parents to wear hijab regularly.....then this is a big step for her and it's very admirable of her to cover hair for some occasions.
^ So, she's making an effort. Don't push her too hard. Praise her....and who knows....maybe soon she'll start realizing things on her own.