Re: DIL not wanting to live with MIL
I don’t know the woman (the dil) in question, but giving a general reply.
Even murderers don’t kill people all day long. They have their good sides too.
All the horrible people that I know (and with horrible I mean the backstabbers, snitches, people who drift others apart and create hate among them, rude to elders etc,), they have their other, good side too. They don’t do their nasty behaviour all day long and they are not rude to everyone. They are only rude to the ones they know they can be rude to.
Mean girls, are not mean to their boyfriends, while they can bully people till they cry.
Um, I am sorry but I dont think I read anywhere that husband is blind? Otherwise no one can be so oblivious to his/her partner’s behavior to their parents since they all live under one roof.
actually, NO. we can come up with a very different based on my account also that DIL is:
caring: cooked for husband after seeing he liked MIL’s cooking
accomodating and compromising: started washing dishes occasionally after MIL expressed concern over boys doing work eventhough men SHOULD do housework its not the 18th century anymore and she did make that case.
sweet: living with in-laws and hasn’t run away eventhough she obviously doesnt like them
career-oriented: works, studies, etc.
fashion-able: likes to dress up-to-date with skinny jeans
loves husband: likes to spend more time with him instead of not caring like najeeb’s wife
Thats probably the side that her family sees and doesn’t see the other side. I swear i’m not trying to be biased in my accounts, I can only tell u what i know. I really want to get to the bottom of this issue, which is why i’m also telling u the stuff MIL thinks/does which i personally disagree with as she IS too traditionaly and desi-aunty mentality regarding sons.
Finally the character got fleshed out a bit resembling more like a real life human with shortcomings and maybe some hidden good traits.