DIL not wanting to live with MIL

[Deeba1234]

Re: DIL not wanting to live with MIL

@Iyla

I think there are two sides to every story and I don’t believe this one.

Witnessing cancer usually changes people in the strangest ways ! I mean I’ve even seen the most stubbornest enemies reunite after decades due to cancer!

There’s more to this story...call up the DIL so we can hear her side!

Agree..

I’m wondering if it is more than just MIL ‘asking’ DIL to wear shalwar khameez (which in itself is obviously not much of an issue if she is asked rather than told/ordered .. I’ve seen situations where the dress thing comes up and nearly always the MIL is making other comments about behaviour etc.. THAT is when the atmosphere becomes horrible and the DIL usually starts to show attitude).. Why can’t the husband just say to the wife wear what you feel comfortable in and he will explain to his mum nicely?

I defo do think there is more to this..

(I don’t think son should move out either tho if mum is so ill.. There should be an honest discussion in the family about what’s going on.. and not blind support and then in turn a load of bitternessss.. Maybe wife should move out temporarily if things aren’t resolved)