Difficult Issue?

adrift · January 16, 2010, 4:12pm

Salaam everyone,

I have come onto this board due to an issue that a friend of mine has and I thought I would request some opinions.

Through a marriage aunty my friend met a girl that he chatted to for about two weeks and as far as I know he got on really well with her. The issue is that he also found out through a close friend that she had a socially active early university life, so to speak and she had basically slept with one of his close friends who would rather not talk about it as he has realised his mistakes and moved on.

Now he has raised this issue with the girl and she has admitted her past and has stated that she has moved on and went to umraa the previous year and all the wrongs are now past her.

What should this friend do as the friend she had previously slept with is still pretty much in his life. For once I honestly don’t know what advice to give him.

One final note he is a pretty religious person and he did state that he would refer the matter to his maulvi/sheikh as to the decision to take, they normally do istikhara or something I think.

Thanks

it happened btw his frend and that girl with mutual consent. so i think its difficult.