Now he has raised this issue with the girl and she has admitted her past and has stated that she has moved on and went to umraa the previous year and all the wrongs are now past her.
What should this friend do as the friend she had previously slept with is still pretty much in his life. For once I honestly don’t know what advice to give him.
One final note he is a pretty religious person and he did state that he would refer the matter to his maulvi/sheikh as to the decision to take, they normally do istikhara or something I think.
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The decision is pretty simple. He should not go any forward with the girl. Its not about her past or her current character. Even if she reverted back and now a nice girl, it will socially be very hard for the guy to marry her while the other friend (whom she slept with) is still hanging around.
he should talk to that girl and let her know in very respectful manner that he is finding it every hard to move forward in this relationship and its not because of her past but social awkwardness. I am sure she will understand.