difference between true love and crush

hey friends..i got a question

What is the diffrence between true love and infatuation or crush?

For example ,jab hume koi acha lagta hai to hume lagta hai that we love that person very much, we can do anthing for him/her,n then after 1 year or two we realise that we don’t love that person …yeh to sirf college level crush tha ya aisa kuch.

Time kay saath insan badlte hain ,un ki sooch badlti hai…aur aisa her age main hota hai Pasand na pasand change hoti hai.
To phir in sab main pyar kahan hai?

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if a car is hit you, u is crush. I liked bila when I was small, now I are like billi. tme are change

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:rotfl:
well put :stuck_out_tongue:

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goodBabu and cadet018 please behave...i want serious replies.

Hume kaise pata chalta hai kay yeh pyar hai ya sirf infatuation ?

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sorry I is spoken on goodest for mine wisdome.

merey kheyal men, ager Ap mohabt key arzey men mubtala hain tu pata chal jata hey, ager yeh crush ho tu bhee kam az kam ap khob jantey ho....

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sorry main nahi manti...

yeh bohot normal hai,college level per ya uni ya kisi bhi age main ,mujhe aisa lagta hai kay kisi koi koi bhi kabhi bhi pasand aa sakta hai.

Khair topic hai kay hume koi bohot acha lagta hai....hume completely lagta hai kay bas jee mil gaya hume apna jeevan saathi...per kuch time baad hume us bande ya bandi ko deekh k bhi nafrat hoti hai aur hum soochte hain kay....
Maine is se pyar kiya tha.

Per us time jab yeh sab ho raha hota hai to lagta hai kay hume saacha pyar hai....
Pyar main jeena ,pyaar main marna
Farig hain hum ,hume aur kiya karna......wah wah

Kya sheer hai...hehe

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If only they'd stop making hindi films such confusion will cease to exist.

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u is rite..i are agree on u

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well i dont think its cuz of indian movies (well may b it is) .....

but i think ....... if ur crush lasts more then time u expected it to be ..... then its pyar ...... n if ur pyar turns out to be tragic one ..... then its ishq :)

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ur name is nadia,right?

kya yaar...im serious...i really wanna know,I mean agar hume sirf infatuation ya crush hi hota rahe to "true love" kahan gaya in sab main?

Matlab phir to pyar vyar kuch hai hi nahi... aur hindi movies jhoot bolti hain;)...???

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Crush ka kitna time hota hai??

For example hume 10 saal kay liye crush hota hai aur phir hume pata chalta hai kay nahi yeh true love nahi hai....to ?

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ask my mrz. , she says it was all of the above:shikra:

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kooooooool…
Tell me,actually kya tha:)

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:eek: nai nai sharam atey hai:(

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10 saal ka crush :smack:
i hope koi itna time waste nahin kerta hoga :stuck_out_tongue:

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tell us ur love story 1942…hehe

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If you can think rationally while you think u r in love - then its a crush. Thats how I take it.

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crush is when ie. a person meets someone ..and the blood in your body and the heart rate goes the quadrouple the speed then thats crush and piyar is when you experience a wanting of something or someone ..'chaahat'... over a period of time ... crush is temporary and piyaar is lasting .... crush is when you see that someones done something which is not of your liking and then you say nah .. i dunt like this person anymore .. but piyaar is even if they make the biggest mistake ..you tend to overlook it .. why cos they are of your liking ..

oh and crush is a ''one way'' traffic and when piyaar happens its a ''two way' traffic ....

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oh and crush is a ''one way'' traffic and when piyaar happens its a ''two way' traffic ....
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not necessarily

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this is in general terms .... eg... a student has a crush on his teacher ... but the teacher will always be a teacher .. what are the chances of this crush turnig to love ... pretty close to zero percent ...

and from this . .. very rare just like friendship can turn to love .. crush can turn to love but not vice versa...