Re: Difference between being a mother in pakistan and abroad.
I am no way saying that not giving people who need a job shouldnt get one, i totally understand that people need jobs, in pakistan when we go our driver is greatful for the extra work, my dad paid for his daughters wedding! its not about that.
And its not about judging people either.
If someone has a child, instead of a maid carrying the child and the mother doing the work, hire a maid to do some work and the mother carry and play with the child and bond and bring it up!
And to be honest im not talking about having a gardner or a plumber or whatever, im talking specifically about a maid to look after a baby.
Im just saying my mum and many others could hold a strong bond with me and run the house and hold down a job.
I dont think a maid should be hired to look after a child if you are at home, a maid should be hired to do work if you cant cope.
If you have a job and the child is 1-2 years old and there is no creche or play school then sure hire a maid.