In pakistan the houses are way bigger compared to here, and harder to clean since we mostly have tiles or bricked floors there and here we usually have carpet or wood. We have dishwashers, and washing machines, and just about everything so life is easier out here. My sis has 3 kids and she is a stay at home mom, her house is about 5,000sq feet and I'm amazed at how she handles everything easily. She even trained her 4 and 3 year old daughter on folding clothes and cleaning up after their self, be it from picking up toys, putting shoes in closet, or looking after their 9 months old sister. The kids enjoy feeling grown up and lifes easier. She freezes the kababs and stuff, cuts all the nessecasry things like onions tomatoes for the whole week so the salan can be cooked easily and effortlessly. all she needs to do is broom the kitchen daily and vaccum the livving room. rest is done on a weekly basis. Its mostly about organizing and fixing a schedule for everything. Life can be so much easier that way. For paki, I guess the loadshedding, hot weather and relatives over can be frustrating so a maid is needed I guess.
Your sister sure is so impressive! :)